Tuesday, 1 January 2013

Posting Rapist Address and Picture on a website, how good or bad it is?

I might sound taking side of rapist but just couldn’t find much use of this scheme. It looked like government will lick it’s own spit in few months or may be in couple of years. This proposed solution might just not solve any purpose but just open another can of worms.

 
 
Here are my 2 cents, why do I think that this solution should not be implemented and should be given proper thought rather than rushing and jumping our guns.
 
When would Delhi police post a picture of some person?
  1. As soon as case is registered against some one – I don’t think so. Because then some psycho women can use this as a weapon to sort out their personal grudges.
  2. When some one is convicted and given a sentence ? Most probably yes. If we have already given a prison sentence then why do we need his picture on website. Are we saying that even after completing his prison, he will not be changed and will still be involved in wrong doings. Then, Our justice system is too lenient and should bring amendments to fix that. On the other hand, if we believe our justice system and believe that guy will be changed at the end of his punishment and not going to involve in wrong doing then why do we need his picture on Delhi police website. This will just take away his chances to correct himself and will push back towards crime and will give more reasons to indulge in wrong activities.
 
I am almost sure that as soon as one of these ex culprit kills himself out of embarrassment, Human rights and NGO will take out their swords against this and government will have  no option but to revert this back. I see more drawbacks in this solution then positives.
 
I think, the main cause is people’s mentality. Men are treating women as an object and feeling that they can get away with anything to everything in this country or their blind belief on our slow paced justice system. That’s why 90% of such cases are not even reported in this country.
 
I guess we need to focus on these areas rather coming up with an stupid idea like the one mentioned above. We need to change course curriculum, we need to empower the women of our country. Probably having a separate court, which is continuously working on such cases and bringing down the tenor to months if not days. Every quick judgement will destroy confidence of these rapists. Proper support to girl/women and careful handling of such cases. We have to have proper mechanism to add these victims to main stream once again, these things will boost girl and her families confidence to come out in open an report such cases.
 
One can ask why government is coming up with this?
They just want to show us ( Indians) that they are serious and want to do something for mango people like me. So that we can sit at our home and stop protesting and stop scrutinizing their each and every action.
 
I will take this as an opportunity to address our beloved prime minister  Dr Manmohan singh. Please start  taking us ( people of India) a bit serious. Please don’t consider us foolish and stop acting as one of those by yourself. India has people from IITs, IIMs and AIMS, they do understand what you and your government is doing. The time has gone, when leaders were able to say whatever they want and later get rid of that. Today’s India is more educated and knows what they want. This is high time, when you start delivering or make room for some one else who can take care of Indian.

Saturday, 16 January 2010

China and India – Hindi Chini Bhai Bhai (How much truth lies in this

China raises concern over a visit to one of India’s state by our Prime
Minister. China pressurizes India on one road development project
going on in one of the state of India and our government stops the
development work. China sales arms and arms technology to Pakistan and
calls that as a free trade.

These are few perfect examples of showing brotherhood. Most of the
Indian cinema shows this drama that brother is fighting with other
brother and giving help to enemies of his own brother. I see lots of
brother act are done by china so now we (Indians) should do something
about it.

I consider buying Chinese goods as a shameless act as being
Jaychandra. The Way Jaychandra acted and helped moghals for his small
profit, we are also buying Chinese good because thee goods are few
bucks cheaper and allowing our industry to die or loose against
Chinese players. By buying Chinese goods we are giving away our money
to Chinese companies and then the same money comes back to India in
form of terrorists, because they are one of the biggest bank for
Pakistan now a days. Isn’t it similar to being Jaychanra?

How can we (Indian) such a stupid that we proud to be Indian and
helping a country which is one of the biggest threat to our Existence.
Just read about the report which says that we have already lost lots
of land to China in last 25 years. Where are our Swadesi guys, India
moan about country of Chandra Shekhar Azad, Rani Padmawati who
preferred to die with dignity rather then live alive with no self
respect. Where is our dignity, self respect? Does it only come in to
picture when your junior buys a bigger car than you have?

Jago India Jago, B4 it’s too late. I do believe in the phrase that
it’s better to be late than never. But then don’t forget about late
fee. We should not end up paying a huge late fee and regretting later
in our life.

I don’t believe that my words will go in gutter, I know India has more
educated and intellectual people than ever before and even if this
make one person think in this direction for few days, I will consider
that as victory.

Wednesday, 16 September 2009

Congress slams Mr Shashi Tharoor for his remark on economy class on twitters

If we take a look at the Mr Tharoor’s brief profile then – He is born and brought up in London, joined United Nation and moved to USA early in life and since then he has enjoyed all the luxuries in US under United Nations office. One can imagine US is anyway known for it’s luxurious life and on the top of that if some one works for UN then what sorts of facilities he/she must be getting. Shashi tharoor is also used to those kind of luxuries.
He sacrificed most of the luxuries and relocated to India in the wish of becoming Indias foreign minister someday. He was mulling over his sacrifice for this country, then he was forced to move out from 5star and then finally travel in economy class this was too much for mr tharoor after all he has spend whole life differentiating himself from mango people and now if he has to do samething which every mango people do this is kind of insult to him.
What would his friends say? And that made him so impatient that Mr tharoor twit that on social networking site. I am not blaming Tharoor to compare mango people with cattle. Because that’s what most of rich and successful person say and act. Shashi Tharoor is definitely successful and also sufficient rich so he said it in front of whole world what he believe, why is so much cry on that?
One can say that he has said so many things during his campaign just few months back that he understands pain of mango people and knows what mango people need then how come he can compare mango people with cattle. Come one but that’s the typical quality of an Indian politician and that’s what he is. So how can you expect things different from him. He came to India so that he can prove himself, he lost General secretary election so wanted to show his friends and relatives that he is Shashi tharoor and not some Tom, Dick and Harry and he did it. I am sure he just wants to become Foreign minister someday to quench his ambitions.
Even a man shows sympathy to an animal when he wants that animal to do something for him but that doesn’t mean he start comparing himself from that animal he still treat it like an animal only.

Jai hoTharoor Baba ki .. Baba kabhi London aao apne is janwar se bhi mil lena

Wednesday, 12 August 2009

Dream big and Stay tuned

Dream Big and stay tuned:

Dream in my native language called SAPNA. Lots of indian parents names their daughters this name. Even my family has 2 Sapna. Dream is something you really want to make that happen, it could be related to your life or others. There are two types of dreams classified as night dreams and day dream. Night dreams are acceptable while day dreaming is considered a bad habit to have in life. Indian people consider probability of morning dream coming true is much higher than other dream.

Occasionally you may hear that someone is warning you to stop dreaming etc but I consider dreaming is a very important part of your life. Your dreams have as much impact on your life as education or your parents if not more. Dream is the first stair of a big ladder. Your childhood dreams play an important role in your destiny.

I believe if someone can’t dream big then he/she can’t do big, subconsciously humans actions are derived from their dreams. So my advice to all kids is to start dreaming and start dreaming something big.
If you dream about chocolate you are gonna get chocolate and if you dream about a plane believe me you can fly plane one day. And if you want to own that plane then you dad will also have to dream the same thing.

Dreams should not be taken in fun and one should really make an effort to see big but consistent dream. There are people who analyse the dreams and predict the future events, according to those people mind knows lots of things which are in unconscious part of mind and while sleeping those things become active.

Biggest dream: By now you must have realized that I am a dream lover. I keep dreaming about various things but the only thing is lacking is the amount of efforts to make that dream come true. My biggest dream was/is to earn billion dollars. Now you can understand how big I think.

The dream which came true: Since I remember, I have dreamed about very few things in life but the things I dreamed are big things like mentioned in the paragraph above to this one. But yeah I did dream about some small thinks like working in Barclays capital when my offer was put on hold. I am dreaming about becoming a trader one day and then making millions in each deal. I guess the dream of working in Barclays capital came true but with small hiccup. If I take my clock to 4 years in the past then also had a similar dream of working in trilogy which also came almost true when I rejected that offer for Fiebrlink.

Post dream celebration: it is really awesome to see thing things happened which you were waiting to happen since long time. I feel like relieved and sense of achievement is amazing (if the dream was something related to achieving in your life). I remember when I had received an offer letter from Trilogy. I was on the 7th sky. I was very happy whole day everything was looking in the reach. I was feeling so special that day. I wish if see similar days more frequently in my life.

Actions taken, when you feel you have just missed
What’s the next big dream in your life: Next big dream is already mentioned in above paragraphs. Want to earn billion dollars or in other words want to become super rich in the life. Also keep praying to go that he should give me wisdom to use that money in good causes. This is the biggest dream of my life but next dream is to get a trading job in some investment bank. In order to achieve this goal, I have started reading. I have been solving problem from hulls.

Market is so bad right now that I don’t see any chances to breakthrough. But one should not stop trying due to fear of failure but they should even try harder and hence I am trying and need to increase my efforts though.

Dream never comes true without efforts.

Poor Rich

I am not writing about a comparison between rich and poor and this is definitely not summary of book ‘Rich Dad Poor Dad’. But here i am trying to present that how could, a really rich person be referred as a poor guy. Other day I was sitting with my friends and chay ki Chuskiya le rahe tha (having tea together). And news broke out that Michael Schumacher will not be returning back to F1 due to his neck problem and suddenly everybody started saying, what a pity and some said poor guy and in the second breathe, I kind of waved my head in the agreement that what a poor guy. But wait is he really a poor guy – Doesn’t he has enough money to feed himself or his family or he doesn’t have enough money for his sick kid. Does his wife go and clean dirty utensils in neighbors home or was he forced to steal something due to his children or in some cases parents hunger (come on that’s how bollywood films shows poor man). Answer to most of above questions is No. His kids go and take their meal in some fucking 7star hotel. But yes once he stole a woman (Heinz-Harrold Frentzen's wife) almost 10 years ago not sure if he was forced by his love or something else though

Michael Schumacher is the guy who tried to buy the naming rights of ‘Formula one’ and change it to ‘The Michael Schumacher Motorhouse Rage’ due to his enormous wealth. If this guy has so much money then how can you call him poor but in English you can say poor chap or poor guy blah blah. That is the very same reason I like my mother tongue than this stupid language.

Jai Hind -

Tuesday, 11 August 2009

Bollywood movie - Luck

I will start from movie luck and see if my luck works like moussa's luck on this blog :)

LUCK -
Luck means ‘Kismat’ in my mother tongue. Last Sunday, I went to watch this movie along with my wife Sumi, friend Anupam and his wife Shilpa. This is our small gang in London. We generally go for movie together and meet with each other every weekend. This was a Hindi movie so as usual our group’s pseudo Englishman Mr Anupam raised his objection but later he realised that it would be nice for his health if he agrees to come with others. I am sure he was threatened with various ways. On the other hand just like any other indian family, me and sumi was excited for this hindi movie. Since we both love Hindi movie or let me correct myself here that I love movies and she loves hindi movies.

This planning started a day before when I decided to go for movie while my friend was in no mood to watch any hindi movie and somehow managed to convince Shilpa that it would be nice to watch this movie some other time or may be skip this movie. I am sure it would have taken enough courage and time to convince shilpa not to watch hindi movies given a fact this gentleman has showed us lots of 3rd class English movies. Sumi and myself were preparing ourselves for movie and then here we got a call from Anupam. He was just checking out that how are things going on? What are my plans etc and at that time I thought to give another opportunity to shilpa not to miss this movie so I suggested do you want to watch this movie we will be out soon. And shilpa was kind of ready for hindi movie, she immediately grab the opportunity and agreed to be there with or without her husband.
But as usual Mr and Mrs agarwal were late, you must be thinking ‘as usual’ so that is a story for some other time.

We missed the movie show, which we were initially planning to view, but then we took that opportunity to shop from 99p and other showrooms. Sumi bought two tops and we bought some stuffs like salt etc from 99p for our house.

I will stop writing about my planning and will get back to the main theme ‘Luck’. This movie starts with a scene in which almost 7-8 people were handcuffed and blindfolded standing in cage and listening some train noise. At one point of time gate of this cage opens and suddenly all of the people start running towards one side and the picture zooms out to show that they are on the one side of rail tracks and there are 8-10 trains coming from both direction and these people are trying to cross the track without seeing that death is coming from which side. Apparently most of the people crushes under train wheel other than one guy named Musha (a role played by Veteran bollywood actor Mr Sanjay Dutt). That scene was definitely screened very well. After this scene narrator voice comes from the background and start telling story about Musha that how lucky he is. Narrator tells that how musha, was the only survivor of a riot and then when he jumps from 4th floor along with other friends and then his luck with cards. Narrator also tells that he is the one who had realized that he has got a very good luck and how is he using every bit of that luck and then narrator kept telling about other people who has similar luck but they don’t realize about that, that they have born with gods special blessing.

This movie star casts Imran khan son of a stock broker who commit suicide after running a failed fraud scheme is one of the example who had extremely good luck but has no clue about this.
Another character ‘Thamang’ in this movie played by Danny, who is kind of a recruiter for Musha, he search for the lucky people contact them and passes profiles to Musha for his team. In order to search for lucky people thamang travels to different part of world and hire people from different countries like India, Pakistan, china, South Africa etc. And then musha start a game of gambling , he throws different challenges in front of this chosen team like skydiving with a fact that there are certain parasuits will not open in the air and no-one knows that which one wont open. It’s just their luck will help them getting right parasuit.
Each person stays alive more day makes more money like INR10M per day, and then movie also shows love angles (not triangle) between Ravi, Shruti Hasan and Imran khan.

And in the last imran khan wins the jackpot along with mithunda coming in support of Imran to save shruti from the hand of rejected Ravi by shruti.

In the last of movie imran challenges musha for a luck challenge and found himself near death, but then director shows another bit of his luck saves him and kind of shows a draw between mush and Imran.
I guess Imran has maintained his cuteness in this movie also but I would have expected slightly better acting being nephew of perfectionist Mr Aamir khan.

Shruti looked gorgeous, Ravi was as expected overall acting level was ok other than sanjay dutt. Sanjay would not like to remember his performance in this movie, Since he was busy campaigning for his big brother Amar Singh. I felt movie was ok but definitely director couldn’t achieve what he should have.